Accepting Consequences

We took Bodhi to Puppy Playtime at Petco where he is learning socialization skills. He is still a fabric toy hog and tires out most of the other dogs by the end of the hour. I wanted to take Keith out to dinner at a sit down restaurant instead of ordering take out and eating at an outside table where Bodhi can hang out with us. We put Bodhi in the backseat of the car with his car halter clicked in. He spread out, luxuriating in comfort. I told Keith that I accept full responsibility for any damage he may cause to my car seat. Whatever he does, I accept the consequences. We opened the car windows and the cool evening air breezed through. We had a celebratory dinner. When we returned to the car, Bodhi half opened his eyes to see that we were back and then went back to sleep. I trusted him and he came through. If Bodhi would have eaten my car seat, I was ready to accept the consequences of my decision. Thankfully, we did not have to find out.

Bodhi the Canine Good Citizen

For the past 8 weeks, we have been attending AKC’s Canine Good Citizen class. The 10 item test consists of:
1. Accepting a friendly stranger
2. Sitting politely for petting
3. Appearance and grooming
4. Out for a walk on a loose lead
5. Walking through a crowd
6. Sit and down and stay in place
7. Coming when called
8. Reaction to another dog
9. Reaction to distraction
10. Supervised separation

The first time around he failed sitting politely for petting and supervised separation. After all the other dogs got a chance at the test, the evaluators allowed dogs who failed two items a “do-over.” After waiting about 2 hours, Bodhi was tired, hot, and thirsty. In a state of low energy, he was able to pass the two items without a problem. Bodhi at 4 months and 3 weeks old passed.

I wondered if a human baby at 2 years old could pass the test. It probably depends on the baby.

Cosmic Lint

I just finished listening to Bill Bryson’s A Short History of Nearly Everything. He points out that in the realm of the universe, the earth is cosmic lint which makes us even less than cosmic lint. That perspective helped me realize that Bodhi and I are only here together for a blink of time. Whatever he does, I don’t have to take it so seriously. Time passes quickly. Take a breath and enjoy.

Changes

Now that Bodhi is 4 1/2 months old, he has discovered that he can stand on his hind legs and put his front paws on the kitchen counter. No amount of “Off!” has deterred him yet. When told to sit, he will sit for a few seconds and then up he goes again. He seems to choose a new thing to jump up on each week. As he grows taller, more enticing objects, places – such as the bed- are within reach.

I just read “5 Things We Cannot Change and the Happiness We Find by Embracing Them” by David Richo.
The 5 things we cannot change are:
1. Everything changes and ends
2. Things do not always go according to plan
3. Life is not always fair
4. Pain is a part of life
5. People are not loving and loyal all the time

I am trying to accept the fact that Bodhi will continue to change and challenge me in our brief time together. No need to get all worked up about anything he did or didn’t do, wait a day or two and he will have moved on to something else.

Puppy Proof

After three days of bed rest, Bodhi was back in high gear, racing around the house. Bed rest for a puppy means only walking on a leash, no climbing stairs, and no jumping around. His leg seems better. Lack of exercise resulted in built up energy that exploded like a volcano. He dashed around the living room and crashed into a ceramic cup that I had on a shelf and broke it. Of course, I yelled at him, but I know who didn’t prevent this from happening, me. All the dog books instructed us to puppy proof the house. I thought that as long as he is supervised, he wouldn’t break anything. I was wrong. I gathered all my breakables and stored them in a closet. When we know better, we do better.